Wednesday, December 17, 2008

No Double Life For This Young Woman

by Sandy Sand

There’s a fascinating profile in today’s Los Angeles Times
http://www.latimes.com/news/nationworld/nation/la-na-muslimgay17-2008dec17,0,1438523.story about a young woman of Indian descent, who is no longer living the double life of denying her gayness to her devout Muslim family.

Aliyah Bacchus, 22, a transplant from Guyana, is an exotic looking young woman living in New York City who had a big problem -- knowing that while most Americans are generally accepting of gays, her family isn’t.

She was left with two choices: Live a lie or be true to herself and who she is, or leaving her family forever.

She did what we should all do; be true to ourselves and the rest of the world be damned.

The article made it sound like this problem of being true to oneself or living in an intolerable situation is exclusive to homosexuals.

It isn’t.

Many of us have found ourselves trapped in impossible situations.

Bacchus’ story can be inspirational for anyone finding himself in the same situation, and it doesn't matter if it's a miserable marriage, adult children who are leeches, the mother-in-law from hell, a drug addict family member, or having the worst job in the world.

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